{"id":1908,"date":"2021-12-16T18:24:34","date_gmt":"2021-12-16T17:24:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.convivialthinking.org\/?p=1908"},"modified":"2021-12-16T18:26:05","modified_gmt":"2021-12-16T17:26:05","slug":"affairs-of-the-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/index.php\/2021\/12\/16\/affairs-of-the-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"Makoma As\u03b5m (Affairs of the Heart)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>by A.B. Godfreed<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Go on,<\/p>\n<p>put this trite piece<\/p>\n<p>aside<\/p>\n<p>let it loose to go<\/p>\n<p>find anyone<\/p>\n<p>where you are<\/p>\n<p>right now.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1909\" src=\"https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-640x640.png 640w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002-45x45.png 45w, https:\/\/convivialthinking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/makoma-as3m-ABG-002.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Search<\/p>\n<p>each room,<\/p>\n<p>look for other lost<\/p>\n<p>souls<\/p>\n<p>and do this.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a must.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Alone?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>All alone!<\/p>\n<p>Then, stride out<\/p>\n<p>into the street,<\/p>\n<p>grab<\/p>\n<p>the first one you meet:<\/p>\n<p>man, woman, child, even the dog down the road.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Go!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Find<\/p>\n<p>someone<\/p>\n<p>gaze into his\/her\/its<\/p>\n<p>eyes<\/p>\n<p>which must not be<\/p>\n<p>encumbered with so many pronouns,<\/p>\n<p>when translated into<\/p>\n<p>other tongues.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Just do it!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hold<\/p>\n<p>anyone<\/p>\n<p>close enough to watch<\/p>\n<p>yourself in a stranger\u2019s eyes,<\/p>\n<p>always black pupils,<\/p>\n<p>undiluted<\/p>\n<p>scenes of you in miniature,<\/p>\n<p>looking deep into<\/p>\n<p>sights unseen<\/p>\n<p>of you<\/p>\n<p>looking deep into<\/p>\n<p>the Other<\/p>\n<p>who sees you &amp;<\/p>\n<p>vice versa<\/p>\n<p>but<\/p>\n<p>with a rose-scented feeling<\/p>\n<p>while<\/p>\n<p><em>coraz\u00f3n latido <\/em><\/p>\n<p>a symphony<\/p>\n<p>yet<\/p>\n<p>unknown,<\/p>\n<p><em>notre amour <\/em><\/p>\n<p>beyond the bevy called \u201cin love.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For this is it,<\/p>\n<p>this us<\/p>\n<p><em>sentipensante; <\/em><\/p>\n<p>this us<\/p>\n<p>when <em>akoma<\/em> feels other<\/p>\n<p>than how it is taught to think<\/p>\n<p>in some type of separation<\/p>\n<p>of<\/p>\n<p>down is not up<\/p>\n<p>there is not here<\/p>\n<p>then is not now<\/p>\n<p>wrong is not right<\/p>\n<p>they are, most definitely, not us<\/p>\n<p>not only bad but also opposed to our good<\/p>\n<p>abounds<\/p>\n<p>in every glib gesture of<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Go way you<\/em>!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Can you feel it?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Did you try it?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Or<\/p>\n<p>do you still<\/p>\n<p>look for life on these dead pages<\/p>\n<p>through this contrived<\/p>\n<p>convolution,<\/p>\n<p>even as I might just be there\u2014<\/p>\n<p>outside your door<\/p>\n<p>waiting<\/p>\n<p>for our encounter with the truth<\/p>\n<p>of who we are<\/p>\n<p>when<\/p>\n<p>waiting<\/p>\n<p>for our hearts to speak<\/p>\n<p>instead of your interpretation of<\/p>\n<p>these well-worn words<\/p>\n<p>of mine.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Glossary<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>akoma<\/strong> (Twi)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 heart<\/p>\n<p><strong>makoma as\u03b5m<\/strong> (Twi)\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 matters of the heart<\/p>\n<p><strong>coraz\u00f3n latido<\/strong> (Spanish)\u00a0\u00a0 heart beat<\/p>\n<p><strong>notre amour<\/strong> (French)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 our love<\/p>\n<p><strong>sentipensante <\/strong>(Spanish)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 sensing-thinking<\/p>\n<p><strong>Go way you!<\/strong> (Ghanaian pidgin)\u00a0\u00a0 Get lost! Scram!<\/p>\n<p>#love #heart #poetry #feelings #thoughts<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>A.B. Godfreed<\/strong> writes poetry and narratives, as well as produces iCollective Art and experimental beatmixes, which are shared on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.abgodfreed.com\/\">A.B. Godfreed Prosetry &amp; Pic(k)s<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/linktr.ee\/ABGodfreed\">various social media platforms<\/a>. A.B. Godfreed engages in these eclectic endeavors as a way of creating \u201cwork that makes life sweet\u201d, while also highlighting diversity and yet epigenetically entangled oneness\u2014in all its intelligence and beauty.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by A.B. 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